I’m sorry (I guess)

Yesterday was a weird day. I go through a myriad of moods and emotions as most humans do but yesterday was a weird day. When you work in customer service, you have to have this facade of being a very happy and amiable person. Problem is with me, I am very sensitive to those around…

Self preservation above all

Karma has once again smiled upon the United States in the lil ole state of Alabama. There was a vote for a new U.S. senator. It was between Doug Jones and Roy Moore. Excuse me, I mean #pedomoore. Information has come out about #pedomoore basically sexually harassing a fourteen year old at a mall while…

Nice talking to you. Here is my dick pic

Ah yes. Online conversations. I was a the forefront of the generation of dealing with chat rooms and messaging online services. From AOL chat to Yahoo Messenger, you got to communicate with people from all over the world. It was great at first. Talking to people without running up your phone bill and actually having…

Can I even hug people now ??

With all the sexual harassment suits and accusations, men are now somehow put in a quandary of how to behave. Really?? I never knew that following the decent level of social norms was really so hard. I know while I was growing up I was taught please , thank you , may I and shaking…

Always aware

There is a huge unwritten rule for being black anywhere in the world. You are not welcome. African Americans are not even welcome in Africa by some as if it was our fault that our ancestors were sold and put to work on a land that isn’t ours.  I cannot speak for other races on…

Romp on good fella 

Late evening into this morning I saw this picture on my various timelines about the romper for him. At first I was like alright. If they are fine with a onesie, no big whoop. Hell, growing up in NYC, I have seen worse. But then I remember what time I live in. Here come the…

Who asked you?? 

As I sit out here in a communal patio area, this question just popped into my head. You see, everything that is done in someone’s life has the tendency to cause someone else to pass some level of judgement. I know I pass judgement on people.  I am a human being who happens to watch…

When the Shea runs dry

Two days ago, the company named Shea Moisture introduced a new ad on their Facebook page. Shea Moisture new ad This ad features many women but most prominent are a biracial women and some Caucasian women. Now you may be saying what’s the big deal. Hair is hair.  Sadly, hair is not just hair. Hair especially…

The Diss heard round the world 

Exactly two days ago, lyricist extraordinaire Remy Ma basically bodied Onika “Nicki Minaj” Maraj. There was an undercurrent or subliminals jabs being thrown for a while but more recently the last two songs Nicki did features on. Now we know Remy Ma  has been locked for about eight years and was released about 2 years…

Don’t leave us out 👀👀👀👀

I know I am getting old. There are things that my mind cannot truly wrap itself around these days. Celebrities unfortunately cannot do right or wrong without someone having a stick up their ass about it. But it also seems that everyday people cannot do anything without someone having issues with it.  Most people of…

The Women’s March (Synopsis One Month Later)

On January 21st 2017, we had the  Women’s March happen. People from all walks of life came out in droves to support women’s right. The reason why I decided to write about the March almost a month later is because when I read the news now, we are currently dealing with leaks and ties with…

Say what you mean and mean what you say

Words can be kind and they can also be cruel. We say things everyday without sometimes realizing how they may affect the person you may be talking to.  Now before you cry, so what you can’t tell jokes, hell yeah you can tell jokes. The issue involves not knowing whether someone in the audience may…