End of 2017

As usual, the year ends and we begin reflecting on what life was during that year. 2017 was rough. Rough for not just me but for everyone I know. It wasn’t just because of who is currently sitting the White House though he did provide the catalyst and realization of how mentally backwards this nation…

I don’t like it because so many do

When you watch humanity and are a part of it, you begin to notice the quirks and idiosyncratic behaviors. One that seems to be very prevalent is not liking something because so many do. Now, I am not saying you should have a “hive” mind but I do notice some people want to be contrary…

Staring into oblivion 

Today, someone decided to tell me not to be angry. Now, most New Yorkers I know who have grown up there have had this resting bitch face before it had a name. I have always had a problem with having a smile on my face. I always feel your feelings should be genuine. This however…

Love your height 

Instagram is amazing. About 2 weeks ago, I decided to search hashtags especially about tall girls. Now I know tall girls are usually these gorgeous models on runways all over the world.  When searching the hashtag tall girls, I found all these gorgeous bloggers that are about 5’10” and over. Now while I am late…

Mind your neck

Walking in on conversations can be very painful. You may hear something that you would swear is about you. Sad thing is most times humans do not talk about people when they know they are in direct ear shot. For those raised with manners, we try to say nice things until it is time not…

Smiling in your face

Four days into the new year and already the old bs has come along. One of my co worker’s found out that someone was basically talking behind her back. The term liar was used and it was about her family.  She of course is upset because she doesn’t like confrontation but at the same time,…

Let me come out for you 

We live in a world where sexuality is always seem to be part or the forefront when getting know about someone. This seems to be especially important when it comes to those in the public eye. For some reason, some people have some huge fascination with people’s sexuality. We are  always want to know if…

Just shut up and listen

Today at my job, I sat down and was talking with two of my co workers. They are in their late teens to early twenties. I put that in because I am almost 20 years older than them. We were discussing how people will come up with anything to make someone feel jealous or even…

Happy New Year— Welcome 2016

Well Well Well. A new year has begun and as with everything new, we want to start fresh. It is something about something being new that inherently makes us feel like we can take on the world. I do not find anything wrong with this feeling. After all, sometimes life can be the most frustrating…

My feelings are not yours

This glorious Thursday, I woke up with not such a heavy heart. I spoke to my mom and my two best friends the night before. I have never in my life heard my mom so happy. She went walking the day before and she has had knees surgery so this is huge for me. I…

Oh Sarcasm, how you mock me?

I am not funny. I am not. I know this and some of my friends know it. I am not the one to bring the house down with laughter.  I live in the land of dry humor and sarcasm. Some people are naturally funny. They can tell jokes and always be “on.”  I am not…