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Black twitter was set ablaze yesterday when the Singer/ Businesswoman Ciara posted a video about women who want to be wives. Her hashtag was #levelup. Almost immediately, the wanna be sociologists and psychologists were suggesting that she was just perpetuating the misgynoir about black women and marriage. Discussions about how preachers are always talking to…

I know why Bridezilla is a true term…

Well well well. I am back from 4 days of a wonderful clusterf*&k that was my sister’s wedding. Now before anyone says “but that’s your sister” First I am not calling my sister nor my new brother in law a clusterf*&k. What I am referring to is everything that happened leading up to that day….

Somebody’s getting married

Well my illustrious readers, my blog will be quiet for the 4 days. My sister is getting  married and since I am the Maid of Honor, I will be helping with every last detail. One thing about my sister getting married is what she has gone through and still going through. Broken contracts and such…